Kevin Toms Blog

Original author of Football Manager computer game

Bill Shankly Management

The great football manager, Bill Shankly of Liverpool, used a good technique to manage his players’ consistency. When a team is trying to win the league championship, they have to play a lot of games, and there is pressure. You can be at the top, and then start worrying about how many more games you have to win. Knowing how many points you need to get can cause you to stress about the scale of what you have to do.

So to stop his young players looking ahead at these big challenges and getting nervous- those nerves can mean the difference between putting the ball into the net and missing- to keep them on form, he emphasised something. He got them to focus on only the next game, just about winning that.

This is a simple solution to anxiety about big goals and it works. It works better than saying ‘don’t worry it’ll be fine’. It works better because ‘don’t worry’ gives you nothing to focus on, and your mind wanders back to the anxiety. So Shankly was cleverly giving the players something to focus on, something to fire their competitive spirit, – winning the next match.

And that is how a league is won, one match at a time. Interesting though how this technique works in a lot of life, breaking down big goals into small achievable ones, and celebrating each successful step.

January 14, 2010 Posted by Kevin Toms | Football Manager, Life Thoughts, Philosophy | | No Comments Yet

Tiger Woods bedroom yawn

Has anybody considered that Tiger Woods bedroom antics are not really all that interesting, whereas his playing on the Golf course is! He is just like so many others, a human being with flaws, I don’t really care what he gets up to at home, that’s his life, not mine. But it is supposed to be important to us all right???

December 6, 2009 Posted by Kevin Toms | Life Thoughts, Philosophy | | No Comments Yet

Drink, Drugs and Wild Sex

No wonder I am tired, that has been my week. Is it the rock star lifestyle that I lead? Well it could be, but no, the drink was coffee, the drug was caffeine, and the wild sex was the constant spring mating of birds outside my window! :-)

November 19, 2009 Posted by Kevin Toms | Life Thoughts, Philosophy | | No Comments Yet

Donations – why?

It took me a long time to decide to add donations to my website. But, I am an independent games developer like many others, and it seemed a good idea. Why is it a good idea? To make money? – That is only a distant possibility. What finally triggered me was listening to Richard Stallman talking on the radio about funding creative people. He described how good it would be if, when we liked something, a piece of music, a book, or computer games, etc, that we could then send $1 to the author. Not to a corporation, a record company, a publisher, just direct to the author.

It’s certainly what I would like to do when I like something. But he also highlighted that there is no infrastructure, no way to do it, no way to get the money through. What is needed is some kind of donations account which you can use easily with accessible creative artist identities so you can choose who you are donating to, and do so cheaply.

As far as I can see Paypal donations is the best way currently to do so. Until someone creates a donations bank that is the best there is. So now I am in the system, I am taking donations to fund me to continue writing more games, or as recognition for the entertainment my games have provided you in the past. Thank you.Donate

October 8, 2009 Posted by Kevin Toms | Life Thoughts, Philosophy, Money and Business | | No Comments Yet

Apollo astronauts and the Lottery

I was reading about the Apollo programme. One of the most interesting parts was how they coped with coming down to earth. How do you cope with this – “you are walking on the moon, and a short time later you are at a barbecue at a neighbour’s house”.  -From mind stretching, mind blowing experience, to the mundane and routine, in days. Many people have trouble coping with high points in life. The astronauts also had to cope with the consequence of striving for years, achieving a dream, then wondering what to do with the rest of your life. “At 39 years old, he had already done the greatest thing he would do in his life, what do you do from there?”.

The music business produces this experience for people. They dream of pop stardom, they strive, they get it. Then it doesn’t solve anything, and they get lost. Lost sometimes in drugs, drink and wasting of what they have. Often it’s because the only plan was to make it, which seemed only just possible anyway. But it was possible so worth going for. But having got there, there was no plan for what to do next.

I remember saying to someone once -”Imagine that you won the lottery, no REALLY imagine it. Not only would it change your life, but imagining that can tell you how much of what you do, day to do, is important. Are you on a treadmill where you assume that you have to do stuff, that you have no choice. But if you really DID win the lottery you would have to change all those values, like you won’t need to work, you won’t need to build up money, so what is your life for, what REALLY counts.”

.. Sometimes we are so close to the treadmill we are on, we can’t see that it is time to change the treadmill!

July 23, 2009 Posted by Kevin Toms | Life Thoughts, Philosophy | | No Comments Yet

Work and Life and J.K. Rowling

Sometimes life is just keeping your head down and getting on with the work. That’s what it is right now for me. But, there’s more to life than work, so you need to spend time on other things. I live in a great place, Auckland. But even here it can be raining, cold (it’s winter), and you just want to stay in by the fire. But, just kicking a football around in the park yesterday was great fun. I’ll never tire of football it seems. Crazy obsessed as I am :-) .

It’s always good to see the background of people who’ve achieved a lot. The program on a year in the life of J.K. Rowling produced a great moment. They took her back to the flat she was in when her life was at rock bottom and she wrote the first Harry Potter book. On the shelf in the bedroom of the people who now live there, was a row of her books. It blew her mind seeing that. This was the place where life was hard and poor and she decided to give it a go to try to become a writer. She knew it might not work, but she wanted to try anyway. Now with millions and a vast business around the book series she goes back to the start place and her books are on the shelf. A circle of completion.

And, you know what. It’s always worth giving it a try. The worst case is you don’t make it. Better to have tried and failed, than always wonder what might have been if you took that risk. Glorious failure- better than regrets I think! And it could be a J.K. Rowling!

July 16, 2009 Posted by Kevin Toms | Football, Life Thoughts, Philosophy, Present | | No Comments Yet